independence

 I woke up at 05:30, prepared a bowl of food for the homeless cat that refuses to come inside, took a short walk along the lake in my flip flops, and returned directly to the pool for a swim. By 06:45 I was showered, dressed, had a cup of coffee, and began to work. However, these days, the thought of freedom haunts and taunts me. The cat is a living example of what many of us should probably aim to do in life: forego comfort for freedom. We become slaves of our salaries. I have saved and invested well, I am secure, and yet I remain devoted to my income because I want to continue to build. Not to be super wealthy, just to seek financial independence. No job required. Having said that… therein lies the problem; why not just do it now and take the risks, but the beautiful freedom, that come with this? 

With time zone differences and massive amounts of activity, I often find myself in meetings at 7am or earlier. When these meetings, back to back, end around 11am, I start to work on strategy, e-mails, presentations, communications, ideas. By 3pm I am exhausted and try to step back, do some reading or some learning. But, it strikes me almost daily, why not start doing the reading and learning and personal development in the morning instead of listening to people make demands and act angry because something is not done?

Why are we not more like the cat? I suppose this particular cat has one advantage: I feed it daily and try to provide shelter. When a human being chooses that path, they are usually shunned by all other human beings and end up with no food or shelter whilst falling into a sharp state of mental health decline.  

Alas, food for thought. 

 


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